- For coconut milk- Grind the fresh grated coconut with water and squeeze out the thick milk with a strainer. Set aside. Soak the almonds in water for 2 hours. Peel the almonds and drain out all the water. Soak fennel seeds, peppercorns and khus khus in water for 2hours. Grind soaked poppy seeds, fennel seeds, black peppercorns, green cardamom, soaked almonds grind further to make a fine paste. Now add coconut milk, sugar and rose water and blend till smooth. Using strainer strain the above mixture in a bowl. Keep in refrigerate for few hours. Garnish with chopped almonds, pistachios and fresh rose petals. Serve chilled.