- firstly, in a large kadai, heat 1 tbsp butter and saute 1 bay leaf, 1 green chilli, further add ½ onion petals and ½ cubed capsicum. fry till they shrink slightly. ... Then add chopped tomatos saute on low flame till the spices turn aromatic. Add soya sauce , tobasco sauce and tomato sauce. Add spices Then Add your cottage cheese Cook for a min. Add half spoon of jaggery Then add whole cream or milk (half small bowl) Cook for 1 min Add chopped cilantro leaves..