- Peel and grate bottle gourd. Take a pan, add ghee, cashew nuts,almonds,raisins, mix it well till they change the colour, then add grated bottle gourd and mix it. Let it cook for about 5 to 10 minutes on aslow flame and keep mixing it. Then add Milk stir it, i Now add sugar to it and mix. Then add Koya to it, keep mixing for 5 minutes.